AWLAAD KE HUQUQ WALIDAIN KE ZIMME
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∫AWLAAD KE HUQUQ ∫
∫WALIDAIN KE ZIMME∫
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Awlaad ke bhi kuchh huquq he walidain ke zimme. Walidain ke zimme un ka adaa karna zaruri he.
❶ Awlaad ka pehla haq jo un ke paida hone se pehle se hi shuru ho jata he wo ye he ke Awlaad ke liye achhchhi maa ka intikhab kare yani hone wali biwi achhchhe akhlaaq wali ho, deendar ho, achhchhe khandan wali ho.
❷ Nikah ke bad miya biwi sohbat karein to us mauqe ki manqool duain parhein take hone wali awlaad shaytani asaraat se mahfooz rahe.
❸ Jab bachcha paida ho to nehlaane ke bad sidhe kaan me azaan or ulte kaan me iqaamat kahi jaae.
❹ Bachche ke pet me kisi tarah ki giza jane se pehle kisi nek aadmi se TEHNEEK karwayi jaae yani kisi nek aadmi se khajoor chabwa kar bachche ko chatayi jaae.
❺ Bachche ka umda naam rakhein, umda naam batlab ye ke kisi nabi, sahabi ya wali ka naam rakha jaae, ya esa naam rakha jaae ke jis ke ma'na deeny etebaar se achhchhe ho.
❻ Awlaad ki deeny tarbiyat w ta'leem ki fikr ki jaae.
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ßachcho ki Ðeeny
₮arbiyat ki ₳hmiyat
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❉ Agar walidain apni awlaad ke khair khawah hein to mazhabi or islami taleem dene me pesh pesh rahein
❉ Yaad rakhein Awlaad ke bad deen hone or bigadne ki tamam zimmedari walidain par he.
❉ Agar walidain ne awlaad ko deen se jahil rakha or namaz wagera ka paband nahi banaya, sunnat ke mutabiq zindagi guzarne ka aadi na banaya, jahannam se bach kar jannat me pohnchne ka rasta na samjhaya to..... Qayamat ke roz yahi awlaad Allah se shikayat karegi.
® ƒatawa ₹ahimiya: 2/98
❶ Halal Giza ka ehtemam ☞ bachche ki maa [ jo use dudh pilane wali ho ] esi ho jo halal giza khati ho kyunke jo dudh haram rizq se paida hota he us me koi khair w barkat nahi hoti balke jab haram ke dudh se bachche ki parwarish hoti he to bachche ke badan me khabasat reh jati he jis ki wajah se bachche ki tabiyat shaytani kamo ki taraf maail hoti hai
® ℳajmua Rasail Imam Gazali rh. 1/192
❷ AADABE TA'AM ☞ yani bachche ko khane ke aadab sikhae jaaein ke.....
① sidhe hath se khae
② bismillah parhe
③ apne samne se khae
④ dusro se pehle hath na barhaae
⑤ achhchhi tarah chaba kar khae
⑥ salan wagera se hath or kapde kharab na kare
⑦ zyada khane se roka jaae, zyada khane ki burai bayan ki jaae
⑧ sada khana khane ki aadat dali jaae
⑨ khana khane me dusro ka khayal rakhne ki aadat dali jae.
® ℳajmua Rasail Imam Gazali rh. 1/193, 194
❸ AADABE LIBAS ☞ yani bachcho ko bachpan hi se kapde pehnne ke aadab sikhae jaae...
① rangin or reshmi kapdo ke bajae safed kapdo ki muhabbat dil me dali jaae
② larko ko aurto ki mushabaht wale or larkiyo ko mardo ki mushabaht wale libas ki nafrat dilai jaae
③ fakhirana libas pehnne wale bachcho se door rakha jaae.
④ libas pehnne ke waqt ki duaein yaad karai jaae
⑤ satar ka khayal rakhna sikhaya jaae
® ℳajmua Rasail Imam Gazali rh. 1/195
❹ SONE KE AADAB ☞ chhote bachcho ko sone aadab sikhaae jaae...
① din ke waqt zyada sone se roka jaae, is se susti paida hoti he, raat me sone se na rokein
② naram bistar se roka jaae take aaza mazboot ho or badan bhadda na hone paae
③ raat me be wajah jagta na rahe, jald sone ki aadat dali jaae
④ sone se pehle duao ka ehtemam kiya jaae
⑤ sone ka behtarin tariqa ye he ke qible ki taraf munh kar ke sidhi karwat par letein, qible ki taraf pair kar ke letna jaiz nahi, pet ke bal letna bhi mana he.
® ℳajmua Rasail Imam Gazali rh. 1/195
✒ Abu ℳahmood Usmani
❺ MAJLIS OR BAATCHEET KE AADAB ☞ bachpan hi se bachcho ko ye sikhaya jaae ke jab do char aadmiyo ke sath bethe ho to kese bethein ? Kisi se baat cheet kese karein ?
① bado ka adab sikhaya jaae
② bado se baat karne or un ko pukarne ka tariqa sikhaya jaae
③ bado ki wo batein jo zahir me kadwi ho lekin islah ke khatir kahi gayi ho use sunne or maan lena sikhaya jaae
④ bado ke samne adab se bethna sikhaya jaae
⑤ majlis me thukne or naak saf karne se roka jaae
⑥ kisi bade ki taraf pair ya pith kar ke bethne se roka jaae
⑦ zyada batein karne or bolne se roka jaae
⑧ jhoot bolne, bahane banane, be hayai ki batein karne, zyada qasme khane se sakhti se roka jaae warna tambih ki jaae
⑨ ese bachcho or logo ki sohbat se bachaya jaae jin se bachche ki bolchal par asar parta ho.
® ℳajmua Rasail Imam Gazali rh. 1/200, 201
❋ Awlaad ke huquq me ek aham tarin haq ye he Deendar larka― larki se shadi karai jaae
❊ Hz Abu Huraira rd se riwayat he ke Rasulullah Sallalahu Alayhi Wasallam ne irshad farmaya ke jab tumhare pass rishta bheje wo shakhs jis ka deen or akhlaq tumhe pasand ho to tum [ apni beti ya bahan ki ] ki shadi kar do, agar tum shadi nahi karaoge to zamin me bahut bada fasad or fitna phelega.
® ₮irmizi : 1/207
∫AWLAAD KE HUQUQ ∫
∫WALIDAIN KE ZIMME∫
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Awlaad ke bhi kuchh huquq he walidain ke zimme. Walidain ke zimme un ka adaa karna zaruri he.
❶ Awlaad ka pehla haq jo un ke paida hone se pehle se hi shuru ho jata he wo ye he ke Awlaad ke liye achhchhi maa ka intikhab kare yani hone wali biwi achhchhe akhlaaq wali ho, deendar ho, achhchhe khandan wali ho.
❷ Nikah ke bad miya biwi sohbat karein to us mauqe ki manqool duain parhein take hone wali awlaad shaytani asaraat se mahfooz rahe.
❸ Jab bachcha paida ho to nehlaane ke bad sidhe kaan me azaan or ulte kaan me iqaamat kahi jaae.
❹ Bachche ke pet me kisi tarah ki giza jane se pehle kisi nek aadmi se TEHNEEK karwayi jaae yani kisi nek aadmi se khajoor chabwa kar bachche ko chatayi jaae.
❺ Bachche ka umda naam rakhein, umda naam batlab ye ke kisi nabi, sahabi ya wali ka naam rakha jaae, ya esa naam rakha jaae ke jis ke ma'na deeny etebaar se achhchhe ho.
❻ Awlaad ki deeny tarbiyat w ta'leem ki fikr ki jaae.
※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※
ßachcho ki Ðeeny
₮arbiyat ki ₳hmiyat
※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※
❉ Agar walidain apni awlaad ke khair khawah hein to mazhabi or islami taleem dene me pesh pesh rahein
❉ Yaad rakhein Awlaad ke bad deen hone or bigadne ki tamam zimmedari walidain par he.
❉ Agar walidain ne awlaad ko deen se jahil rakha or namaz wagera ka paband nahi banaya, sunnat ke mutabiq zindagi guzarne ka aadi na banaya, jahannam se bach kar jannat me pohnchne ka rasta na samjhaya to..... Qayamat ke roz yahi awlaad Allah se shikayat karegi.
® ƒatawa ₹ahimiya: 2/98
❶ Halal Giza ka ehtemam ☞ bachche ki maa [ jo use dudh pilane wali ho ] esi ho jo halal giza khati ho kyunke jo dudh haram rizq se paida hota he us me koi khair w barkat nahi hoti balke jab haram ke dudh se bachche ki parwarish hoti he to bachche ke badan me khabasat reh jati he jis ki wajah se bachche ki tabiyat shaytani kamo ki taraf maail hoti hai
® ℳajmua Rasail Imam Gazali rh. 1/192
❷ AADABE TA'AM ☞ yani bachche ko khane ke aadab sikhae jaaein ke.....
① sidhe hath se khae
② bismillah parhe
③ apne samne se khae
④ dusro se pehle hath na barhaae
⑤ achhchhi tarah chaba kar khae
⑥ salan wagera se hath or kapde kharab na kare
⑦ zyada khane se roka jaae, zyada khane ki burai bayan ki jaae
⑧ sada khana khane ki aadat dali jaae
⑨ khana khane me dusro ka khayal rakhne ki aadat dali jae.
® ℳajmua Rasail Imam Gazali rh. 1/193, 194
❸ AADABE LIBAS ☞ yani bachcho ko bachpan hi se kapde pehnne ke aadab sikhae jaae...
① rangin or reshmi kapdo ke bajae safed kapdo ki muhabbat dil me dali jaae
② larko ko aurto ki mushabaht wale or larkiyo ko mardo ki mushabaht wale libas ki nafrat dilai jaae
③ fakhirana libas pehnne wale bachcho se door rakha jaae.
④ libas pehnne ke waqt ki duaein yaad karai jaae
⑤ satar ka khayal rakhna sikhaya jaae
® ℳajmua Rasail Imam Gazali rh. 1/195
❹ SONE KE AADAB ☞ chhote bachcho ko sone aadab sikhaae jaae...
① din ke waqt zyada sone se roka jaae, is se susti paida hoti he, raat me sone se na rokein
② naram bistar se roka jaae take aaza mazboot ho or badan bhadda na hone paae
③ raat me be wajah jagta na rahe, jald sone ki aadat dali jaae
④ sone se pehle duao ka ehtemam kiya jaae
⑤ sone ka behtarin tariqa ye he ke qible ki taraf munh kar ke sidhi karwat par letein, qible ki taraf pair kar ke letna jaiz nahi, pet ke bal letna bhi mana he.
® ℳajmua Rasail Imam Gazali rh. 1/195
✒ Abu ℳahmood Usmani
❺ MAJLIS OR BAATCHEET KE AADAB ☞ bachpan hi se bachcho ko ye sikhaya jaae ke jab do char aadmiyo ke sath bethe ho to kese bethein ? Kisi se baat cheet kese karein ?
① bado ka adab sikhaya jaae
② bado se baat karne or un ko pukarne ka tariqa sikhaya jaae
③ bado ki wo batein jo zahir me kadwi ho lekin islah ke khatir kahi gayi ho use sunne or maan lena sikhaya jaae
④ bado ke samne adab se bethna sikhaya jaae
⑤ majlis me thukne or naak saf karne se roka jaae
⑥ kisi bade ki taraf pair ya pith kar ke bethne se roka jaae
⑦ zyada batein karne or bolne se roka jaae
⑧ jhoot bolne, bahane banane, be hayai ki batein karne, zyada qasme khane se sakhti se roka jaae warna tambih ki jaae
⑨ ese bachcho or logo ki sohbat se bachaya jaae jin se bachche ki bolchal par asar parta ho.
® ℳajmua Rasail Imam Gazali rh. 1/200, 201
❋ Awlaad ke huquq me ek aham tarin haq ye he Deendar larka― larki se shadi karai jaae
❊ Hz Abu Huraira rd se riwayat he ke Rasulullah Sallalahu Alayhi Wasallam ne irshad farmaya ke jab tumhare pass rishta bheje wo shakhs jis ka deen or akhlaq tumhe pasand ho to tum [ apni beti ya bahan ki ] ki shadi kar do, agar tum shadi nahi karaoge to zamin me bahut bada fasad or fitna phelega.
® ₮irmizi : 1/207