BIWI KE HUQUQ SHOHAR KE ZIMME
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∫BIWI KE HUQUQ ∫
∫SHOHAR KE ZIMME∫
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① biwi ko deen ki bunyadi taleem de
② apni wus'at ke mutabiq biwi par kharch kare
③ biwi ko us ke walidain or rishtedaron se milne ki kabhi kabhi ijazat de
④ biwi ki galatiyon par sabar kare, galigaloch or la'n ta'n na kare
⑤ agar tambih ki zaroorat ho to sakhti na kare
⑥ biwi ke chehre par ya esi mar marna jis se jism par nishan parh jae jaiz nahi
⑦ baqadre zaroorat hambistari kare
⑧ badgumani na kare or us se bilkul gafil bhi na bane
⑨ biwi ke sath achhchhe akhlaq or umda bartaw se pesh aae
(10) bila zarurat talaq na de
①① biwi ko esi jagah rihaish de jaha biwi apne sazo saman ke sath reh sake
①② biwi se ruth kar ghar se nikal na jaae
①③ biwi ko esa jeb kharch de ji me wo apni marzi se kharch kar sake
①④ dil joi karna, khush kar ne ke liye batein karna, raat me us ke pass rehna
①⑤ biwi ki mukammel islah ki zid kie bager nibhaya jaae
①⑥ shohar or biwi ki milkiyat ki chizein alag alag ho take zakat or miras ka hisab sahih ho sake
👉 KUCHH FARMANE NABWI
❶ hz muawiya ibne hayda rd se riwayat he ke mene Rasulullah Sallalahu Alayhi Wasallam se puchha: hamari biwiyo ka ham par kya haq he ?
Rasulullah Sallalahu Alayhi Wasallam ne irshad farmaya
① jab tum khaao to use bhi khilaao
② jab tum pehno to use bhi pehnaao
③ us ke chehre pe mat maro
④ use bura bhala mat kaho
⑤ us ko mat chhoro magar ghar me [yani tum kisi wajah se us se naraz ho to ghar me to apna bistar alag kar sakte ho lekin ghar chhor kar mat jaao.
® ₳ßu Ðawood no: 2142
❷ hz amr ibnul ahwas rd seriwayat he ke me Rasulullah Sallalahu Alayhi Wasallam ke sath hajjatul wida me tha, aap ne khutbe me allah ki hamdo sana bayan ki [or bahut kuchh batein irshad farmayi... un baton me ye baat bhi irshad farmayi]
“ khoob achhchhi tarah sun lo, me tumhe aurto ke bare me bhalai ki nasihat karta hu, is nasihat ko qabool karo, is liye ke ye aurtein tumhare pass tumhare gharo me qaid hein, tumhe un par sirf itna haq hasil he ke wo tumhare pass rahe, is ke alawa kuchh nahi”
® ₮irmizi no: 3078
∫BIWI KE HUQUQ ∫
∫SHOHAR KE ZIMME∫
🔲🔲🔲🔲🔲🔲🔲🔲🔲🔲
① biwi ko deen ki bunyadi taleem de
② apni wus'at ke mutabiq biwi par kharch kare
③ biwi ko us ke walidain or rishtedaron se milne ki kabhi kabhi ijazat de
④ biwi ki galatiyon par sabar kare, galigaloch or la'n ta'n na kare
⑤ agar tambih ki zaroorat ho to sakhti na kare
⑥ biwi ke chehre par ya esi mar marna jis se jism par nishan parh jae jaiz nahi
⑦ baqadre zaroorat hambistari kare
⑧ badgumani na kare or us se bilkul gafil bhi na bane
⑨ biwi ke sath achhchhe akhlaq or umda bartaw se pesh aae
(10) bila zarurat talaq na de
①① biwi ko esi jagah rihaish de jaha biwi apne sazo saman ke sath reh sake
①② biwi se ruth kar ghar se nikal na jaae
①③ biwi ko esa jeb kharch de ji me wo apni marzi se kharch kar sake
①④ dil joi karna, khush kar ne ke liye batein karna, raat me us ke pass rehna
①⑤ biwi ki mukammel islah ki zid kie bager nibhaya jaae
①⑥ shohar or biwi ki milkiyat ki chizein alag alag ho take zakat or miras ka hisab sahih ho sake
👉 KUCHH FARMANE NABWI
❶ hz muawiya ibne hayda rd se riwayat he ke mene Rasulullah Sallalahu Alayhi Wasallam se puchha: hamari biwiyo ka ham par kya haq he ?
Rasulullah Sallalahu Alayhi Wasallam ne irshad farmaya
① jab tum khaao to use bhi khilaao
② jab tum pehno to use bhi pehnaao
③ us ke chehre pe mat maro
④ use bura bhala mat kaho
⑤ us ko mat chhoro magar ghar me [yani tum kisi wajah se us se naraz ho to ghar me to apna bistar alag kar sakte ho lekin ghar chhor kar mat jaao.
® ₳ßu Ðawood no: 2142
❷ hz amr ibnul ahwas rd seriwayat he ke me Rasulullah Sallalahu Alayhi Wasallam ke sath hajjatul wida me tha, aap ne khutbe me allah ki hamdo sana bayan ki [or bahut kuchh batein irshad farmayi... un baton me ye baat bhi irshad farmayi]
“ khoob achhchhi tarah sun lo, me tumhe aurto ke bare me bhalai ki nasihat karta hu, is nasihat ko qabool karo, is liye ke ye aurtein tumhare pass tumhare gharo me qaid hein, tumhe un par sirf itna haq hasil he ke wo tumhare pass rahe, is ke alawa kuchh nahi”
® ₮irmizi no: 3078