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KHUSH GAVAR IZDIVAJI (MIYA-BIVI KE DARMYAN KI) ZINDAGI KESE BANTI HE ??
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Shoharo ko ye baat achhchhi tarah zahan nasheen kar leni chahye ke dunya ki har aurat ko apni izdiwaji zindagi me 3 chizo ki bunyadi zarurat hoti he, goya he wo 3 chizo ki talabgar hoti he..
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BIWI KI 3 BUNYADI ZARURATEIN
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❶ TAHAFFUZ [ PROTECTION ]
Biwi apne ghar baar ko chhor kar shohar ke pass aayi he use hifazat chahye apni jaan ki, apni izzat ki, apne iman ki.
✦ Hifazat ke bare do chizein zaruri he.
① shohar us ko esi jagah rakhe jaha wo apne bachcho ke sath hifazat se reh sake, agar esi jagah rakha he jaha hifazat nahi to wo ghar aabad nahi ho sakta.
② shohar ko chahye ke biwi ko tamam khubyo or khamiyo ke sath apna le, biwi ko ye tasalli de ke tum meri khatir yaha aayi ho, ab tumhare nafa nuqsan ka zimmedar me hu, ye nahi ke agar achhchhi baat ho to thik warna ukhar kar phenk diyaa.
shohar ko chahye ke.....
shohar ko chahye ke....
Biwi ko esi muhabbat de ke wo ye samajh le mera shohar meri achhchhai ko bhi qabul karega or agar kotahi ho gai to use bhi qabool kar lega or meri islah karega, muje ukhad kar phenk nahi dega.
Shohar ko jab biwi yu mahsoos karne lage ke ye mera sahara he or meri zindagi ka saya he, allah ne muje ek aasman ki chhat di or ek shohar ki chhat di, ab muje fikar ki zarurat nahi ke mera aainda kya hoga to biwi ke dimag se anjana khauf ( fear of unkhown ) nikal jata he or wo pur sukun ho jati he.
❷ TAWAJJUH [Attention]
Biwi ki dusri aham or bunyadi zarurat ye hoti he ke use miya ki tawajjuh chahye, yani shohar biwi ko waqt de, us ke sath waqt guzare, us ki zarurat mahsus kare, us ka hal puchhe, ye na ho ke shohar apne karobar me esa masruf ho ke biwi bimar he to kai kai din tak kheryat puchhne ki fursat na mile, jab biwi ko ye mahsus hoga ke shohar meri taraf tawajjuh nahi karta to w OK ghar kabhi aabaad na hoga.
❸ HONSLA AFZAAI [APPRECITATION]
Bivi chahti he ke jab me shohar ke kehne ke mutabiq har kam karti hu to mere achhchhe kam par muje shabashi milni chahye, tarif honi chahye, meri qadar honi chahye, jab shohar biwi ki is baat ki parwah na kare or anjaan ban jaae to bivi ko sukoon kaha se milega ?
Shohar khana kha to leta he lekin khane ki or biwi ki tarif nahi karta ya kam se kam ese kalimaat bhi nahi Kehta jis se bivi ko tasalli ho to bivi ka dil toot jata he. Har insaan chahta he ke us ke achhchhe kam ko achhchha kaha jaae, agar koi achhchha na kahe t OK dil toot jata he, is liye ke ye ek fitri taqaza he.
Shohar ko chahye ke biwi ki in tino bunyadi zaruraton ko pura kar ne me pichhe na rahe,zaroor pura kare. Magar deen ka ilm na hone ki wajah se shohar ki taraf se kotahiyaan hoti he.
Shohar ko ghar me kese rehna chahye wo use maloom nahi hota is liye wo esi galatiyan karta rehta he, or aam tor par akser shohar karte hein jin ki wajah se ghar ki zindagi be sukoon ho jati he. Esi galatiyan 10 he.
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KHUSH GAVAR IZDIVAJI (MIYA-BIVI KE DARMYAN KI) ZINDAGI KESE BANTI HE ??
🔲🔲🔲🔲🔲🔲🔲🔲🔲🔲
Shoharo ko ye baat achhchhi tarah zahan nasheen kar leni chahye ke dunya ki har aurat ko apni izdiwaji zindagi me 3 chizo ki bunyadi zarurat hoti he, goya he wo 3 chizo ki talabgar hoti he..
🔲🔲🔲🔲🔲🔲🔲🔲🔲🔲
BIWI KI 3 BUNYADI ZARURATEIN
🔲🔲🔲🔲🔲🔲🔲🔲🔲🔲
❶ TAHAFFUZ [ PROTECTION ]
Biwi apne ghar baar ko chhor kar shohar ke pass aayi he use hifazat chahye apni jaan ki, apni izzat ki, apne iman ki.
✦ Hifazat ke bare do chizein zaruri he.
① shohar us ko esi jagah rakhe jaha wo apne bachcho ke sath hifazat se reh sake, agar esi jagah rakha he jaha hifazat nahi to wo ghar aabad nahi ho sakta.
② shohar ko chahye ke biwi ko tamam khubyo or khamiyo ke sath apna le, biwi ko ye tasalli de ke tum meri khatir yaha aayi ho, ab tumhare nafa nuqsan ka zimmedar me hu, ye nahi ke agar achhchhi baat ho to thik warna ukhar kar phenk diyaa.
shohar ko chahye ke.....
shohar ko chahye ke....
Biwi ko esi muhabbat de ke wo ye samajh le mera shohar meri achhchhai ko bhi qabul karega or agar kotahi ho gai to use bhi qabool kar lega or meri islah karega, muje ukhad kar phenk nahi dega.
Shohar ko jab biwi yu mahsoos karne lage ke ye mera sahara he or meri zindagi ka saya he, allah ne muje ek aasman ki chhat di or ek shohar ki chhat di, ab muje fikar ki zarurat nahi ke mera aainda kya hoga to biwi ke dimag se anjana khauf ( fear of unkhown ) nikal jata he or wo pur sukun ho jati he.
❷ TAWAJJUH [Attention]
Biwi ki dusri aham or bunyadi zarurat ye hoti he ke use miya ki tawajjuh chahye, yani shohar biwi ko waqt de, us ke sath waqt guzare, us ki zarurat mahsus kare, us ka hal puchhe, ye na ho ke shohar apne karobar me esa masruf ho ke biwi bimar he to kai kai din tak kheryat puchhne ki fursat na mile, jab biwi ko ye mahsus hoga ke shohar meri taraf tawajjuh nahi karta to w OK ghar kabhi aabaad na hoga.
❸ HONSLA AFZAAI [APPRECITATION]
Bivi chahti he ke jab me shohar ke kehne ke mutabiq har kam karti hu to mere achhchhe kam par muje shabashi milni chahye, tarif honi chahye, meri qadar honi chahye, jab shohar biwi ki is baat ki parwah na kare or anjaan ban jaae to bivi ko sukoon kaha se milega ?
Shohar khana kha to leta he lekin khane ki or biwi ki tarif nahi karta ya kam se kam ese kalimaat bhi nahi Kehta jis se bivi ko tasalli ho to bivi ka dil toot jata he. Har insaan chahta he ke us ke achhchhe kam ko achhchha kaha jaae, agar koi achhchha na kahe t OK dil toot jata he, is liye ke ye ek fitri taqaza he.
Shohar ko chahye ke biwi ki in tino bunyadi zaruraton ko pura kar ne me pichhe na rahe,zaroor pura kare. Magar deen ka ilm na hone ki wajah se shohar ki taraf se kotahiyaan hoti he.
Shohar ko ghar me kese rehna chahye wo use maloom nahi hota is liye wo esi galatiyan karta rehta he, or aam tor par akser shohar karte hein jin ki wajah se ghar ki zindagi be sukoon ho jati he. Esi galatiyan 10 he.
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